
In March, Grace's class had the requirement to spend one week in a "work setting," getting real life exposure to a possible vocation. Grace and her friend, Rachel W., decided to go to the old city of Xian, northwest of Nanjing, to spend a week taking care of foster babies with medical needs. As Rachel Arneberg and I heard more about what they would be doing, we got extremely curious and envious of the chance to take care of babies for a week. Soooooo, we contacted the woman who runs the foster home and asked if we could help for a few days. She was more than welcoming!
While Grace and Rachel W. spent a whole week living in an apartment with 9 babies with cleft palates (and other medical issues), Rachel and I spent just 2 days caring for the babies. But what an amazing 2 days that was! "Starfish Home" (
http://www.chinesestarfishcleft.blogspot.com/) was founded by Amanda deLange, a South African woman with a huge heart for the orphans of China with medical needs. She has been given permission to care for babies and toddlers, with the hope of providing medical care, and possibly adoption, to children that would otherwise be raised in a local orphanage. She runs one of the few private foster homes in China and employs local childcare workers, with the help of many international volunteers like us.
For me and my girls, it was a neat opportunity that we didn't think was possible. Before we moved to China, we had all expressed interest in going to an orphanage on a regular basis, but we found out once we arrived in Nanjing that it is difficult to volunteer, even as an adult. Children are not allowed to volunteer. Amanda gave us the opportunity to pour affection and care into the lives of these babies. We have been deeply touched.

The children we cared for all had cleft palates, some more severe than others. This is Nick. What a sweet boy!

Grace got the hang of giving bottles. Here she is with Nick. Many of the babies have orthodontic plates in their mouths that allow them to suck and help with the growth of their mouths to minimize the cleft palate. Ideally, all of the babies will get corrective surgery.

Rachel, handling 3 babies at once! All of Rachel's maternal instincts were put to use. She was in baby heaven--rocking, playing, feeding, changing one baby after another. There was always a baby that needed care.

Nick must have been one of our favorites, based on the number of photos I have of him! At the airport, when they asked if we had any fragile items in our luggage, Rachel told me she had put Nick in her bag! We were tempted to sneak him out of the apartment...

Grace and her fellow 10th grade friend, Rachel Wadley. They spent a whole week living with 9 babies. When they arrived, many of the babies had come down with chicken pox--no immunity from breast milk and all living in close proximity caused an outbreak. Several of the babies had to be hospitalized and at least one came down with pneumonia when we were there. They have very fragile immune systems.

Nick (again!) with Rachel, and me with Tina. Imagine the laundry and formula and diapers for all those babies!

The living room of the apartment is filled with baby equipment and each baby has an assigned spot in a crib for sleeping, sometimes sharing one crib with 2 other babies.

Me with smiley Tim. He had had a bad case of chicken pox. He also has a fairly severe cleft palate. Nevertheless, he had a sweet disposition.

Clara was another one of our sweethearts. She is wearing her orthodontic plate that helps with the development of her palate as she grows, esp. until she can get corrective surgery. We were sad to say good-bye, but so grateful for the opportunity to be a part of the Starfish ministry.

While in the ancient city of Xian, we HAD to go see the Terracotta Warriors, a must-see tourist attraction in China. It was impressive, and mind-boggling--all these warriors to guard one guy's tomb?? The amount of time and detail that went into creating each warrior is really amazing. For me, it was a good contrast to see at Easter and remember a simpler tomb that truly impacted the world for eternity.

It was great to share the trip to Xian with my girls. We will remember the experience for a long time...and I pray my girls will seek more opportunities to minister to others in need throughout their lives.